Now, I've not done a blog post in a while and today I was meant to upload my 'health is wealth' blog but after two events I postponed it and quickly wrote this one in the space of a few hours. I went to an event on the weekend -it was a rave style night so no-one wears anything fancy. Just a simple jumpsuit and trainers or shorts and trainers - not your average night out attire but to be honest it was nice to have a change! Anyway, I wore a lace up body suit, denim ripped shorts and a pair of trainers. 
A man came up to me the next day, pushed up his face and his exact words were 'you wore shorts to a rave' and the two words he then used to describe me were 'dirty' and 'disgusting'. So, in this small minded mans head if I'd have worn trousers and heels that would make me a good woman? but because I wore shorts I'm less of a woman? His facial expression insinuated that because I wore shorts I was asking for attention or asking to get violated. No, maybe I'd just tanned and wanted to show my legs off, maybe I used to be a size 20 and wanted to show my figure off.. the possibilities are endless.
We define ourselves.. our mind, our thoughts, our bodies they are what defines who we are. The second thing that brought this post on was when I was queuing up for the event I could hear girls that were dressed in the exact same clothing as me and all my girls, basically slating us for NO reason what so ever. (we all looked buff that night so we didn't pay attention) but my point is if women aren't even empowering women how the hell is society supposed to.
Ladies, everyone struggles with being judged there was a point where I wouldn't eat in front of people because I was so concerned with what people thought of me. (I would now eat 4 cheeseburgers in front of a crowd of people and feel no way lol - hog alert) Seriously though, if you can't be arsed wearing make up one day, then don't wear it! If you want to wear something that not many would wear, then wear it! If you want to attend every event, then do it! If you want to be a size 16, then be it!
How we dress and what we wear does NOT define who we are! Love yourself, enjoy your beauty and never let ANYONE whether it's society, magazines, a man or a woman tell you any different. We slay, all day erry'day and always will (if I could insert some emojis right now I would).
When I eventually start vlog'ing I'll say a whole heap more about attitudes towards women and stereotyping but for now I'll leave it there. I hope it was a worthy post, do you baby girls and never any one else.
xxx
